Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Bullying Is For Losers

    What goes through people's heads when they bully someone? What pleasure to people get from tearing others down? To me, the reasons for bullying are incomprehensible. I believe that all people no matter what their gender, religion, race, or orientation, should be treated equally and with respect.

     Just today I was made aware of the tragic death of Jamey Rodemeyer, a 14 year old from the city of Buffalo, NY. Jamey was bullied day after day because of his sexual orientation. On a daily basis, Jamey had a wide array of gay slurs thrown at him. All of the bullying built up to a point where Jamey felt that he had to commit suicide, something no one should ever have to do. Jamey always had the support of his friends and family, but I guess the negatives overtook the positives. He tried to maintain a strong front so that no one could see that any of the hurtful words were getting to him. A lot of the bullying that happened to Jamey was done via internet, on social networking sites such as Twitter. In fact one of Jamey's final goodbyes was made on Twitter. On September 18th, the day he committed suicide, Jamey tweeted to Lady Gaga, " bye mother monster,thank you for all you have done, paws up forever".


       As a tribute to Jamey Rodemeyer, Lady Gaga dedicated her performance of her song "Hair" at the iHeart Radio Music Festival to Jamey. Along with Lady Gaga, there are other celebrities out there that are supporting Jamey, his family, and other teens in the nation that are facing the same situation. Jamey's mother, Tracey, said that her son was put on earth for this short time to show why bullying is wrong. Jamey's father, Tim, said, "my message to the parents is, 'Badger your kids and make them talk,' or get them the help they need,”.

      Jamey Rodemeyer is not the only teen that faces bullies. Unfortunately, teens are bullied all over America. Bullying can be anything that constantly hurts someone. It is not just via internet like it was for Jamey. In some cases, teens are physically bullied. For example, Elise, from Brockport, NY, was harassed everyday on the bus. She was tripped and hit by older students.

     These series of reported incidents of bullying and harassment have led to national acknowledgement of causes to end it. Many people have stated their opinions of what happened. Lady Gaga, during her performance at the iHeart Radio Music Festival, said, "bullying is for losers". I agree with this statement. Courtney W. says "Bullying comes in many forms. If it makes you uncomfortable, it's bullying. BE A BETTER PERSON!".
"Bullying has morphed into something that is uncontrollable now.  With the use of social medias bullying has increased to a level that in unimaginable", says Samuel H. Kathryn P. states "bullying is become a huge problem across America, and society should do whatever they can to stop it". The dean of my school, Mr.Miller, says "bullying has changed to cyberbullying".

     I believe that bullying truly is a major problem with teens in this nation. Sometimes it involves a lack of self confidence and other times it happens because people want to fit in. However, this problem needs to be fixed. It is hurting innocent students physically, as well as emotionally. I also believe that there are three things that need to be thought of to prevent bullying. First, spread the love. Second, don't do to others what you wouldn't want done to yourself. Lastly, one action starts a chain reaction.
  

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Everything In My Family Belongs to Me?

Does everything that anyone in your family owns also belong to you?

I believe that the answer is no. Of Course family is suppose to share what they have, but not exactly everything. For example, if you bought yourself a new toothbrush are you suppose to share that with every member of your family? I don't think so! That would be gross and a practice of bad hygiene.

You have a choice of what to share. All of the things that you own you may not want to share. For instance, if you buy a new car, with your own money, you may not want to let your parents or siblings drive it. However, you may give them rides. I guess that in its own is a way of sharing.

People Who Lie

     When people lie, should they regain trust easily? I believe that the first lie is forgivable, but the lies that follow may not have the same answer. Trust takes a long time to build, and lying just destroys that trust. Trust is like a house made of cards. It takes a really long time to built it, but if you take one card away the whole structure crumbles.

     Lies that protect people are okay to tell, that is, if the person wants to be protected. When I say lies that protect people, I don't mean a kid lying to his teacher about something, I mean like the witness protection kind of lies. Other than that, people should be told the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Leaving out a big part of the truth is almost just as bad as lying.

     When people lie to me it makes it hard for me to completely trust them again. Also, the bigger the lie, the bigger the impact. Liars aren't in good standings with me.